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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 18:29

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

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Why did i forgive my father ?

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

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Comes on , in middle age.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

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One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

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I did it because my mum asked me too!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Why does my crush always looks at me in a sad way whenever I talk with other boys, and if he catch me staring on him then he go and flirt with other girls and then check if I am looking at him?

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

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And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Im a 14 year old girl who doesnt want to wear a hijab but my parents force me to wear one. It makes me dislike it more. Im not ready for one no matter what people say and they get really mad at me. I have bad grades and no motivation. What do I do?

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

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She married twice! .

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Im dying but, im not bitter.

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You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I write beautiful poetry .

This is soul school!.

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Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

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That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

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He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I was seconnd youngest,

Ive learnt so much.

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As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

I was 9 years of age.

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Who then, do I blame.?

What did i know ?

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

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I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

It was going to be , some day.

I couldn’t, believe it.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Where the ultimate outsiders.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I don,t even have a pension.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

He resisted the act ,that day.

But it wasn’t much.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Especially a lifetime of it.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Im still living with it.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

She loved him until the end.

I said to her

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

We all went to grammer schools

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

He knew the spot.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

I never cut or harmed myself..

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I have no regrets .

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

So whats the point in blame.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I could never make a relationship work though!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

We were not on the streets..

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I know ,a lot about trauma.

She was in good health!

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I will be 64.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Put me off passion for life!!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

My family never makes their pension either.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

When she asked me how she looked .

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

And i lived it daily.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

As i do to all so called friends.?

I think the readers, may guess!

(And it was in our own minds.)

She found it foreign!.

I waited trembling.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

So, i spoilt her more .

One cannot live in the past .

All the time i was locked up.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Would this be the day?

I was scared of men, in general

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

But ive been too sick for many years..

My life is so biszare .

She wouldn,t have been !

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

But, we were locked up after school.

Was to survive, this bastard.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I was very sick at this time too.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.